Does She Like Me?

Hello, boys! Tell me something: have you ever wondered if a girl likes you? Say you’ve got your eye on some sweet lady, but you are not sure how she feels about you. All in all, men and women aren’t that different when it comes to that topic. Girls also spend time wondering if this or that person likes them. So you are not alone! If you want an answer to that dreaded question: “Does she like me?”, perhaps our quiz will help with that?

Now, some signs could tell you if a girl is interested in you. If she wants to spend time with you, she might like you. After all, girls don’t hang around with guys they aren’t interested in. Sure, they can have male friends. However, if you’ve only just met her, she’s not going to spend time with you if she doesn’t feel anything. Even if that feeling is just her being intrigued for now.

Of course, just “hanging out” might not be enough. Pay attention to how she behaves when you meet up. Does she engage in a conversation with you, or does she spend most of the time on her phone? Does she laugh at your jokes, even if they are kind of bad? Does she acknowledge you, especially if you’re in a group setting? All those things might be a sign of her being into you.

Keep your eyes open and observe her body language. Does she seem relaxed when she’s around you? Does she like to sit close to you? Perhaps she seems to touch you quite often. For example brushing your hands together when she gives you something, or playfully touching your arm. If she can’t stop smiling when she’s around you, maintains eyes contact, and plays with her hair – my guy, you might have something going on!

Does she stay in touch with you? If it seems like you don’t exist to this girl between your meetings, she might not be that into you. However, if she makes an effort to text or calls you, engages with you on social media, etc, she might be interested. Doubly so, if she suggests meeting one-on-one.

If her friends mention you, it’s a good sign she’s been talking about you, and that she likes you! You might not believe it, but her friends’ opinion of you is crucial. After all, she listens to them, so if they like you, she will like you too!

It’s a good sign if she seems to be interested in knowing more about you. She’ll probe for more information when you offer her information about yourself, and she’ll ask lots of questions. She’ll want to know about your life, friends, work, hobbies, favorite everything, and more. Revealing her personal info can also be a sign that she sees you as someone more than a friend, as it proves that she trusts you.

Teasing and playful picking on you can be a serious indication of her feelings. If she’s flirting, she probably likes you. Don’t be too shy and flirt back – you might be surprised at what this can lead to! 

If she has you in her sights, she will tell you how good you look or some other compliment. Girls generally give each other more compliments than guys do, so you might feel awkward with that kind of attention. You just have to get used to it. When she says something nice about you, say thank you and maybe compliment her too. It will score you some points for sure.

If she’s seriously interested, she will try to find out how does your relationship status looks like. She might just come out and ask straight if you have a girlfriend. However, you might also hear something like “Oh, are you going to take your gf to this game?”. She’s just trying to subtly probe you on whether you’re single or not. Hopefully, you are, if you’re into this girl!

If she lets you know that she’s single, it might be a sign of her interest too. If you’ve known each other for a while, then you’ll probably know her relationship status so pay attention to cues from her that she is ready to start dating someone again. That someone could be you!

There are plenty of signs that could be indicating she’s into you. But how do you know for sure? What if she only sees you as a friend? What if you’re reading into this too much? You don’t want to look like a creep or a fool. What to do? Well, you shouldn’t worry too much. If you’re unsure about her feelings, just answer the questions we prepared for you today and find out if she likes you! And don’t beat yourself up if she’s not into you after all – there are plenty of other fish in the sea.