Some people are vanilla, but others are spicy. Do you want to find out what kind of kinkster you are? Our BDSM test will identify your likes and dislikes and help you decide which labels suit or don’t suit you. Are you dominant or submissive? Sadist or masochist? Maybe you’re someone else entirely? Find your BDSM match with this BDSM test.

What is BDSM?

The term “BDSM” refers to a broad range of sexual preferences and practices. BDSM practices might involve playing with pain, restraints, power exchange, and punishment.

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Bondage is the act of physically restraining someone. Some people practice binding as a meditation tool, a way to build intimacy with their partner, or simply because they find it beautiful. There are different types go bondage, for example, Shibari – a Japanese art form of intricate rope bondage.

In the context of BDSM, discipline is the practice of teaching a person to follow the rules by punishing disobedience. It is also an act of inflicting punishment for breaking the rules or failing to behave in a specific way.

Dominance and submission refer to the exchange of power between a dominant and a submissive partner. A dominant person takes charge and decides what happens, while a submissive person follows. Acts of dominance and submission can happen in and outside of the bedroom.

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A sadist is someone who gets pleasure from causing pain to others. A masochist, on the other hand, takes pleasure from being subjected to pain. It can be physical or emotional.

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BDSM archetypes

Every kinky person is different, but there are some common archetypes most of them can identify with to a certain degree.

Dominant & submissive

Dominant or dom is the person in control during a scene (when partners engage in a BDSM practice). Some like to assume dominance also for the activities outside the bedroom. The dominant decides what will happen.

Submissive or sub is the person who surrenders control to the dominant for the purpose of erotic play. Some people like to be submissive also in their daily activities. The sub gives up authority over what happens.

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Sadist & masochist

A sadist derives pleasure from inflicting physical or psychological pain on other people, usually in a sexual context. A masochist is someone who enjoys being subjected to pain or humiliation. It’s not about pain indifference but the ability to endure different levels of hurt.

Rigger & rope bunny

A rigger specializes in different kinds of restraints and forms of rope bondage, like suspension bondage. They enjoy having their partner tied up and at their mercy. Some do it for sexual fulfillment, others as a form of art or just for fun.

A rope bunny likes to be tied up, restrained, and immobile. Many rope bunnies enjoy being submissive to their partner. For others, however, the restraints serve as a creative outlet or even a way to relax.

Master & slave

A master or mistress is someone who takes complete control over the slave. The difference between a dominant and a master is that a master is in charge 24/7, and the power exchange aspect is present in all aspects of their life (save for negotiated exceptions). A master’s goal is to provide a comfortable and secure atmosphere for their slave to maximize servitude.

A slave gives themselves up completely to their master. Their primary focus is to serve the dominant person in the relationship, who can command them to do whatever (within negotiated limits).

Switch

A switch is someone who likes to take on both dominant and submissive positions and feels comfortable switching from one to another. They can change their role depending on how they feel at the moment.

Experimentalist

An experimentalist is someone curious and eager to try new things. They have a lot of fantasies and don’t fit neatly into any label. An experimentalist has an open mind and wants to dive into the new practice before they form an opinion.

Exhibitionist

An exhibitionist enjoys showing other people their naked bodies. They might also derive pleasure from having others watch them as they make love. A voyeur is someone on the opposite side of the spectrum. They enjoy watching people get naked or engage in sexual activity.

Vanilla

Vanilla is a general term for anything not kink-related. Someone who is vanilla enjoys regular sexual activities and relationship models and doesn’t have an interest in the BDSM world. Our BDSM test will reveal if you’re vanilla or not!

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BDSM test

Our BDSM test will help you uncover your kinks and erotic interests. If you’re a novice in the BDSM world, this BDSM test can aid you in finding practices that sound interesting and like something you would like to try. Even an experienced kinkster can have fun with this one! Perhaps you’ll learn something new about yourself.

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